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Former student comes full circle

By Joanne Fox, Journal staff writer | Posted: Monday, January 29, 2007
A quarter of a century after she roamed the halls of Emerson Elementary School, one young woman has returned as a volunteer, mother and nontraditional student pursuing a degree in elementary education.

On this wintry day, Tina Buhrman was helping second-grade teacher Richelle Burr with a lottery-type game in her son's classroom. Instead of numbers, the kids had created a grid with new vocabulary words garnered from a social studies lesson.

The pupils weren't all that different from typical Bingo players, chatting and looking at each other's cards when a "clue" was given. Some voiced their glee out loud or their disappointment in a similar volume. Since it was a learning situation, there were a number of students who weren't sure which words were which on their cards. That resulted in pleas for help.

"Let's not hear shouting out," Buhrman gently admonished. "Let's allow everybody to use their thinking cap without noise."

Buhrman attended Emerson Grade School from 1981-87. She admitted her present interest may have been the result of her own mother's involvement while Buhrman was an elementary pupil. Marty (Gott) Buhrman also attended Emerson as a child.

"My mom was the lunch lady, so I saw her every day," she said with a laugh. "Plus she was my room mom."

As an adult, Buhrman recalled her education and parents' involvement was key to her own success as a student.

"I was raised with high expectations, not just by my parents, but the educators here at Emerson as well," she said.

Although Buhrman had earned a degree in social work and was working in environments that utilized her education, the siren song of the classroom was calling. She confessed, "I wanted to be in the front line of education."

She began volunteering at Emerson when her son Izaiah, now 7, enrolled. It was the combination of volunteering and parenting that spurred Buhrman into moving toward becoming a teacher. She returned to school and began working on a degree in elementary education.

"It's easy to send my child here," Buhrman said. "I had a quality education here so I was confident he would have the same."

With school and expecting a second son in April, Buhrman has cut back the volunteering time to once a week -- sometimes in the morning and sometimes in the afternoon.

"I try to balance the time I'm here so Izaiah doesn't think I'm looking over his shoulder," she said.

Buhrman felt strongly about giving back "to a building that had given me so much as a child."

"It's a double bonus for me to help out here with Izaiah here," she added. "But there's not enough parent volunteers. They could always use more."

It's also been a personal plus for her as a potential educator.

"I can see the academic status of the students as well as network with a great bunch of professionals here," Buhrman said. "It's given me hope as a parent, former student and future educator."

Buhrman praised the school's philosophy of community, family and welcoming people with open arms.

"They provide such a strong support system for me personally," she noted. "As a single mom, I need that because I'm determined I'm going to do a good job raising my sons; it's just that I'm doing the job of two parents."

Buhrman was particularly introspective during the interview. On Wednesday, she turns 31, "my golden birthday," she pointed out and will coincidentally be 31 weeks along in her pregnancy.

"I look around here (at Emerson) and just realize I've come full circle," she said. "It's reassuring to see there's something good still here."

Joanne Fox may be reached at (712) 293-4247 or joannefox@siouxcityjournal.com.

VITA

Name: Tina Buhrman

Hometown: Sioux City

Education: 1994 graduate of West High School; awarded a bachelor's degree in social work from Bellevue University in 2001; currently pursuing an elementary education degree from the University of Northern Iowa with an anticipated graduation date of December 2007

Professional: previously employed with Winnebago Youth Facility, Sanford Center and as shelter director at Crittenton Center for Shelter and Youth Development; now employed with the Sioux City Community School District's Office of Indian Education

Personal: one son Izaiah, another son due in April

How she's making a difference: by volunteering at Emerson Elementary School

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Sally wrote on Jan 31, 2007 7:08 AM:

" Tina is definitely a Helicopter Mom!!! My gosh - let your kid have some breathing room!! Regarding the 25 year old teacher... For those who are not familiar with her - she was one of the several runner ups for Iowa Teacher of the year. My daughter had her when we lived over in eastern Iowa. She is a wonderful teacher. So what she does not want Helicopter Mom's like a Tina in her room. I as a teacher wouldn't either!! For those who are looking forward to her retiring? She has still a good 15 years of teaching left. Sorry out there for those who was looking forward to her retiring. "

25 year teacher? wrote on Jan 30, 2007 2:42 PM:

" Lady, it sounds like you should retire if you haven't smartened up to the idea all ready. "I can not stand Helicopter Mom's in MY classroom. I do not tolerate them at all. Word to Helicopter Mom's - stay out of my line of fire or you will be in a "Blackhawk Down" situation."??? Who do you think you are??? Somebody thinks they're waaay too important in their little classroom...I pray for every child who was forced to be in your presence for 180 days! "

gee! wrote on Jan 30, 2007 2:38 PM:

" Wow- since when is it so bad to help at your kids' school? If you hateful people weren't complaining about this gal being in her kid's classroom, you'd be turning around and calling her a deadbeat if she wasn't. It's noted that she's in school to be a teacher, and she's evidently worked with kids for years...cut her some slack! "

As A Teacher - This Is A Helicopter Mom wrote on Jan 30, 2007 10:57 AM:

" Point blank - let's get real. This is a Helicopter Mom situation. Tina is a Helicopter Mom. Call it what you want. Helicopter Mom - Helicopter Parent or a Alpha Mom-Helicopter Parent Syndrome - it all means the same. I as a female elementary education teacher for over some 25 years - I can not stand Helicopter Mom's in MY classroom. I do not tolerate them at all. Word to Helicopter Mom's - stay out of my line of fire or you will be in a "Blackhawk Down" situation. "

DSM friend wrote on Jan 30, 2007 8:27 AM:

" Parents who are involved in their children's lives keep the system in check. Teachers can't be everything to every child and parents who are willing to help by stepping in to the classroom are deeply appreciated. Tina is not a helicopter parent, by any definition. She understands social issues, she supports her community and her sons heritage, and she has the ability to give back. Too bad there aren't more people who would trade criticism for a few hours of reading in a classroom. "

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